I'm definitely in the B catagory. I've also known for years that the rules were so up in the air that it was impossible to make sense of the game. Probably why I left the dating game behind years ago, not that I had much choice. Of course, thinking of this whole mess in terms of a game (IE competition) is another mindset holding us back. Men need connection, not notches on the bedpost.

Anyway, I've got the Reeves book on hold at the library. Looking forward to seeing what it has to say.